真正的爱情就像鬼魂一样，动也动不得，摸也摸不到

translated, it says that true love is like a ghostly soul
one which cannot be touched nor felt.
really, true love always comes when you least expect it
and you never know whether what you're feeling is truly what you're waiting for.
love is a very subjective matter from the start
and any argument based on the premise of love therefore becomes subjective.
one can never be sure about anything in love
that's why girls rather give it their all, so that they won't have any regrets
while boys rather take it lightly, so that they won't get too hurt

有的时候，最暧昧的真爱，反而是最浪漫的

translated, it says that sometimes the most ambiguous of feelings
are actually the most romantic.
and i guess i believe this to a fault
have you ever been in a very ambiguous relationship
one where you and he are more than friends
but yet, you'll are neither lovers or a couple?
it's actually that feeling that is the best
and that's why, unless the guy takes the first step
i never will, because i enjoy the ambiguity of the whole relationship.
when the guy breaks this ambiguity
it really changes the whole relationship
because you cannot talk as freely
you cannot behave as freely
you cannot do many things that you could before
your time is not yours anymore
your feelings have to be very sensitive to another
and it's somehow more restrictive
haixx.
and the guys get less romantic.

well, i guess there's always a price to pay for any changes that come along.
it's something that we humans have to live with because
it's part of our life and it's what constitutes our survival